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The Best Gender-Neutral Birthday Party Gifts for Every Budget

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When my 6-year-old gets invited to a birthday party, the first thing I always ask her is “what does so-and-so like?” For a few friends, she knows them well – Garrett loves unicorns, Rosie loves outer space, and Levi loves dinosaurs. But in preschool and kindergarten, kids birthday parties usually mean the entire class is invited, with kids she doesn’t necessarily know very well (and parents I don’t know either).

So I find we’re often stuck when it comes to gift ideas for kids birthday parties. I don’t want to overburden the other parents already planning the party with texts and questions about their child’s interests. I also don’t want to be too assumptive with interests based on gender. Just because the child is a girl doesn’t mean she likes princesses and mermaids; just because the child’s a boy doesn’t mean he likes Ninja Legos and Nerf. I also know what it’s like to be a parent in a house overflowing with toys, so I do a quick assessment when looking for a gift.

  • First, would any child like to play with this?
  • Second, would I want this in my house?
  • Third, I give my daughter a few options so she can pick the gift she wants to give.
  • Finally, I usually purchase it online because, well, convenience, and my children have been known to throw a fit in Target when they don’t get to immediately open the toy we just purchased – even when it’s not for them (I’ve found involving them in the gift-wrapping helps).

We’ve rounded up some gender-neutral birthday go-to gift ideas for every budget, including some fun throwbacks to our own childhoods.

 

Under $20

Amazon
Shine-a-Light Book

Pair with a flashlight

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Jenga
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Hanging Sloth
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Amazon
Chutes & Ladders
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Amazon
High Five Book

From the creators of Dragons Love Tacos

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Petit Collage
How to Draw Travel Pack
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Scandiborn
Brontosaurus Night Light
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World Market
Classic Viewfinder
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Amazon
Tumble Trax
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Under $30

Amazon
Veterinarian Costume Set
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Etch A Sketch
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Raddish Kids Cooking Club
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Amazon
Classic Lego Set
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Amazon
A Fun Float
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Kiwi Co
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Hands-on projects

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H&M
Large Octopus Soft Toy
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Amazon
Magna-tiles Glow
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Under $40

Crate & Kids
Doorway Bean Bag Toss Game
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Target
Toy Story 4 Legos
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Amazon
Ukulele Hawaii Guitar
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