Everything You Need for the Ultimate Solo Self-Care Date Night

written by GIANNA ALDANA

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woman reading with cup of tea
Source: Toa Heftiba | Unsplash
Source: Toa Heftiba | Unsplash

Has anyone else felt like days are extra long and that you’re running on fumes? You’re not alone. Personally, I’ve noticed that I tend to feel my lowest when I neglect quality time to myself. It’s so easy to put self-care on the back burner when life gets a bit hectic, but I’m here to remind you that carving out alone time is the key to feeling like your best self. I truly can’t think of a better way to show yourself some TLC than partaking in a solo self-care date night—and chances are, you’re long overdue.

The older you get, the more you realize how important it is to do something for yourself (no matter how small). Similarly to how you have to prioritize intentionally dating your partner every day, you need to make time to date yourself. This means setting aside time to decompress from everyday stressors in order to replenish your energy and relax your mind and body. This can take form in various ways, such as going to a workout class, watching your favorite movie, taking a solo trip to Target, or even doing your skincare (a personal favorite). In case no one has told you this recently—You deserve all the alone time and space needed to fill your cup. 

One of the easiest ways to squeeze in some self-care is by planning a solo night in. After all, there’s no better feeling than unwinding after a long day in the comfort of your own home. From the coziest loungewear to fun things to do, we’ve compiled a list of everything you’ll need to have the ultimate solo self-care date night. Here’s to prioritizing your overall well-being and making the conscious effort to do the little things that make you feel like the best version of yourself!

Solo Self-Care Date Night Essentials


plush robe
Super-Plush Robe

Wrap yourself in one of these plush robes and be ready to indulge in all the self-care festivities.

10 colors and patterns available

sizes XS – XL

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grey pajama set
Soft Lounge Sleep Set

Talk about ultimate comfort. This sleep set is some of the softest loungewear you’ll ever own.

4 colors available

sizes XXS – 4X

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pink silk set
Washable Silk High Rise Pant Set

Treat yourself to this luxurious pajama set that will have you feeling like a million bucks.

6 colors available

sizes XS – XL

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grey waffle knit PJ set
Abercrombie & Fitch
Lounge Waffle Mockneck Top

Nothing makes you feel more put-together than a good lounge set, and this one is just what you need.

3 colors available, plus matching bottoms

sizes XXS – XL

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fuzzy house slippers
Sherpa Slipper

Slip on these sherpa slippers for ultimate cozy vibes.

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Beauty and Haircare

eye patches
Sephora | Topicals
Faded Under Eye Brightening & Clearing Eye Masks

Would it really be a self-care night if eye patches weren’t included?

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snail face mask
Amazon | COSRX
Snail Mucin Sheet Mask

Throw one of these sheet masks on if you want supple and dewy skin.

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biossance skincare set
Sephora | Biossance
Rapid Radiance Set

Pamper yourself with these skincare goodies that will leave your skin feeling hydrated and plump.

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gua sha set
Empress Collection

One of the best ways to decompress is by using a gua sha to finish off your skincare. This kit provides you with everything you’d ever need.

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frenshe bath bombs
Target | Being Frenshe
Milky Moisturizing Bath Bomb Set

Treat yourself to some much-needed relaxation by popping one of these milky bombs into your bath.

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bath salts
“The Martini” Emotional Detox Bath Soak

Wind down after a long day with this bath soak that is infused with Himalayan salts and essential oils.

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osea bath set
Ulta | OSEA
Glow All Over Body Set

Elevate your self-care nights by incorporating a scrub, lotion, and body oil into your nighttime ritual.

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hair oil set
Sephora | Ceremonia
Aceite de Moska Hair Oil & Scalp Massager Set

Prior to showering, use this oil and massager set to stimulate hair growth and promote a balanced scalp.

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hair mask
Sephora | Vegamour
HYDR-8 Deep Moisture Repair Mask

Give your hair some extra love by using this deep repair mask on self-care nights.

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heatless curl set
Amazon | Kitsch
Satin Heatless Curling Set

There’s no better time to try out this heatless curl set then on a night to yourself.

7 colors available

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shark flexstyle
Sephora | Shark Beauty
Shark Flexstyle

While this hair tool is an investment, you’ll thank yourself when you master at-home salon blowouts.

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alaina kaz primary bathroom
Source: Alaina Kaz

Nighttime Must-Haves

Kindle Paperwhite

A solo date night wouldn’t be complete without a good book, and a Kindle puts any book you want right in your hands.

3 colors available

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white noise cancellation headphones
Amazon | Sony
Noise-Canceling Wireless Headphones

You’ll be able to fully immerse yourself in your favorite music, show, or podcast with these noise-canceling headphones.

2 colors available

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record player
Record Player with Bluetooth

A record player will level up your music-listening experience and help you achieve a relaxing ambience.

9 colors available

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anthropologie candle
Anthropologie | Capri Blue
Volcano Candle

There’s nothing that makes you feel more relaxed than lighting your favorite candle.

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cozy blanket
Nordstrom | Barefoot Dreams
In the Wild Throw Blanket

Everyone knows these blankets are worth the splurge. Made from the softest material, they make date nights that much more cozy.

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bath wooden ledge
Bathtub Caddy Tray

The perfect accessory to complement the bath essentials above, this tray will make you not want to leave your tub.

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wine glasses
Waterfall Wine Glasses

Self-care date or not, you can never turn down a glass of wine—especially in these stunning glasses.

5 colors available

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Things to Do

nail care set
Target | Olive & June
Nail Polish Mani Prep Set

Whether you’re a nail pro or beginner, this set is just what you need for a self-care moment. You can even grab a nail polish set for the ultimate pampering sesh.

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watercolor workbook paint set
Watercolor Pad Kit

This watercolor workbook set is perfect for those just wanting a fun activity or new hobby.

2 styles available

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yoga set
Amazon | Clever Yoga
Yoga Kit

Channel your inner zen with this yoga mat set that’s ideal for both beginners and seasoned pros.

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adult puzzle
Florette 500 Piece Jigsaw Puzzle

Another great way to de-stress, this adult puzzle makes for a fun activity and great home decor afterwards.

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fire stick
Fire TV Stick Streaming Device

Sit back and relax by using the Amazon Fire TV Stick to stream all of your favorite shows and movies.

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embroidery kit
Etsy | The Cherry Blossom US
Floral Embroidery Kit

For those that love a good DIY craft, this embroidery kit makes for a sweet activity to do.

8 styles available

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five minute journal
Amazon | the Intelligent Change
The Five-Minute Journal

Give yourself five minutes to journal, express gratitude, and manifest with this viral interactive book.

6 colors available

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rosetta stone
Amazon | Rosetta Stone
Learn Unlimited Languages

Our editors love being productive on self-care date nights. With this package, you can use your alone time to learn a new language.

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