Valentine’s Day can be filled with heart-shaped candy, expensive dinners out, or pricey jewelry—at least that’s what the advertising says. Whether you choose to celebrate or not, Valentine’s Day can be a reminder to look up from caring for the kids for a moment and notice your partner. For couples who want to mark the day by spending time together—and who want to watch their spending—there are plenty of budget-friendly options. From candlelit movie nights inside to exploring your town (or a new one), there’s an array of activities and date ideas to step out of the norm this Valentine’s Day.
Changing the pace and trying something new together can reignite the spark that sometimes fades a little in parenthood. Plus, who knows? You might just learn something new about your partner. We know that childcare isn’t always budget-friendly, so consider a date night swap with friends or family so you can sneak away and try some of these budget-friendly Valentine’s Day date ideas.
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1. Have a puzzle or board game night
At-home game nights are a low-lift but engaging way to spend quality time together as a couple. Especially if either of you have a competitive streak that can lead to playful banter. Or if you want a more collaborative evening, puzzles will get your wheels turning together.
2. Visit a local brewery or winery
You can never have too many samples! The best way to discover your new favorite wine, beer, or whiskey is with a gold ole’ taste test. Grab your significant other and head to your nearest winery or brewery to share your favorites, discover new options, and laugh at the ones you just can’t stomach. You may just find one you both love!
3. Try in-person or virtual dance lessons
Breaking a sweat (inside or outside the house) is a great way to boost endorphins and make you feel good. However, doing it with a partner makes it all the more worth it. With loads of TikTok dances, music video choreography, Zumba, and more on the internet, the millions of options will keep you both moving—and probably laughing too.
4. Take a hike together
A great way to celebrate each other is to celebrate the nature around you. Grab some water bottles, get your gear, and head into the great outdoors. Put your phones away and bask in the ambiance of being away from the noisiness of your life. Be sure to give your partner your undivided attention and enjoy the alone time.
5. Go window shopping
Does your wallet need a break? Now’s the perfect time to check out all the unique stores in your area without spending a penny. Visiting some quirky antique shops, taking a look at some places in a new town, or walking around for a few hours in your nearest IKEA might just be your kind of a date night. If you have plans for any upcoming home refreshes, it’s a great way to get a feel for each other’s style and preferences.
6. Try a couple’s card game
Not only are game nights fun, but there are tons of games out there built for helping couples reconnect. Consider We’re Not Really Strangers or Where Should We Begin that are filled with prompts meant to deepen a relationship at any level.
7. Plan a vacation
Always wanted to see the Eiffel Tower or visit the islands of Hawaii? Make your travel bucket list together. Why not make life easier by planning ahead and ensuring an unforgettable trip in the future.
8. Go to a local comedy show
Laughter is truly the best medicine, so laugh until you cry by supporting up-and-coming local comedians or try scouring Netflix for something fresh. Laughing together can be a great connector for your relationship.
9. Have a video game night
There’s nothing like blowing the dust off your favorite board games, but why not switch it up a bit? With the huge variety of free and discounted video games available on all systems, there are plenty of options for a little friendly competition.
10. Try a date morning
Rather than planning a date night, see if you can squeeze in a special breakfast with your sweetie, no matter what the day ahead holds. Even if it’s only sharing a scone over coffee before you officially kick off your day, try to relish in the quiet time with just the two of you.
11. Go bowling
Head back to your high school days with this inexpensive date. Spend the night getting competitive over cheap drinks and a nostalgic activity.
12. Hit up a bookstore or a local record store
Want a slow, quiet evening? Grab a cup of coffee together and take a stroll through your favorite bookstore or local record store. Buying separate books may not be as romantic. So, one recommendation is to find a book you can read together that can lead to a second date night—a mini couple’s book club. If you’re opting to hit up a record store, find a record that reminds you of your relationship. Then, have a sweet, romantic dance when you get home.
13. Go on a dessert date
Having an extravagant dinner for two can get a little expensive, especially on Valentine’s Day. Stay at home and make a candlelight dinner, and head to your favorite dessert spot to end the night. Share Valentine’s Day favorites, like a strawberry chocolate mousse cake or tiramisu.
14. Visit your local aquarium
Maybe it’s the rom-com lover in me, but I am a firm believer that an aquarium date can be super romantic. Something about the dim lights and quiet atmosphere make it a great precursor to a dinner out or just a quick sweet treat before heading home. Plus, depending on where you live, tickets will be affordable and easy to get.
15. Have a moonlight picnic
While slightly weather dependent, there is something to be said for bundling up in your warmest clothes, whipping something up in your kitchen, and heading outside for a picnic under the stars. Maybe you make some hot chocolate, or roast s’mores over a bonfire. If childcare doesn’t work out, this is a great option for some one-on-one time after the kids go to sleep.
Tierra Harris, Former Editorial Intern
After writing her first article at 12 years old, Tierra knew she was meant to be a storyteller. When she’s not writing stories or reading the latest YA fiction novel, you can find her reviewing wine, listening to ’80s pop, obsessing over home decor, building her candle collection and taking care of her plants.
Rebecca Smith, Editorial Intern
As editorial intern, Rebecca works with The Everymom team on updating existing content, photo sourcing, pitching original articles, and more. She’s passionate about creating authentic and diverse online content, and is thrilled to help women of all ages feel represented by contributing to The Everymom.
