"To my firstborn,Ā
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For nearly five years, itās been just us. You, me and daddy. You have been the center of our world and the reason we all get up in the morning. You have been my shadow, my mini-me, and my rock. Iāve loved and savored watching you grow. But this September, just in time for your fifth birthday, things are going to change. Youāre going to become a big sister.
Iām thrilled. Itās what Iāve always wanted and I canāt wait to see you step into this new role. But the truth is, Iām kind of scared.
Right now, in no small part due to pregnancy hormones, Iām riding a roller coaster of emotions. Iām feeling happy, sad, overwhelmed, excited, and confused. Here’s why:
Iām Sad to Say Good-Bye to āJust Usā
For years, itās just been me and you against the world and Iāve loved our one-on-one moments. Iām so scared of losing some of the bond you and I have developed. I know maybe I shouldnāt be focusing on what Iām losing, rather on all the new joy Iāll gain with you and your new sibling. But itās whatās on my mind and in my heart right now.
For the past five years, you have had my undivided attention. Thereās a part of me thatās sad to say goodbye to these moments with just you, my first-born. Iāll miss enjoying our mommy-daughter time, our morning cuddles, and making a mess baking cookies.
Now, together, weāll have to figure out a new kind of a balance. Weāll still have fun baking cookies, but more quietly as the baby sleeps. And of course weāll still snuggle in the morning, but there will now be more of us in bed. And when we go to the park, you bet Iāll still push you on that swing, it just might be while also rocking the baby to sleep. We will still have these moments, they just might look different.Ā Ā Ā
I Wonder How Youāll Feel When You Meet Your Sibling
While you are so excited about becoming a big sister, thereās a part of me that feels you donāt quite know what an enormous change this will be. And I wonder how you will react to having a new baby in the house once it actually happens.
Will you be happy? Excited? Upset? A little angry? Whatever your feelings, I will try to be with you because I understand what a big change this will be. And I want to make this transition as easy as possible for you and for us all, really.
But I canāt wait to see what kind of big sister you are. Iām already picturing the first time you meet your sibling and just the thought of it makes my heart burst. Iāve already been preparing you for this very important role and Iām ecstatic to see that youāre ready to take on the challenges. Youāre excited by your new ābig sister boxā where you can easily access certain things for the baby to help meāsuch as diapers, pacifiers and wipes. I want you to be as prepared for this life-changing moment, because, wellā¦ itās going to be a big change.
Your daddy and I canāt wait to see you take on this very important role as a big sister. I know at first it might feel overwhelming to you and might even make you a little mad or jealous, but thatās okay.
For Now, I Resolve to Soak It All In
In these next months before the baby comes along, Iām going to try even harder to be present, with plenty of moments with just me and you. Iām soaking in these last few months where itās just you and me. Even as I write this, Iām scrunched in bed as you are sleeping sweetly next to me. Iām enjoying hearing you breathe and watching you curled up to me, because I know we wonāt have these exact moments of peace with a newborn, so while I want to enjoy them as much as possible, I want you to, as well.
You, my first born, had the honor of starting our family, and your sibling will have the honor of completing it. But my dear sweet girl, I want you to know one thing that will never, ever change. And thatās how much your mommy loves you.