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Repeat after us: it’s not selfish to take time to yourself, it’s not selfish to do something just for you, it’s not selfish to treat yourself. It’s easy to put ourselves last as moms, especially when we’re in the thick of it with making sure our kids’ needs are met.
But if you’ve ever dabbled with parental burnout, then you know: we have to take care of ourselves to be the best parents we can be for our kids. We’re not saying that self-care is the answer to everything, but we do believe that caring for your own needs (on a regular basis!) and treating yourself from time-to-time, can help make this whole motherhood thing feel a little more sustainable.
So whether it’s a “getaway” into a good book, a CBD-infused soak in the bathtub, or a little retail therapy, we’ve got you covered with this list of 20 of our favorite treat-yourself items for moms—check them out below.
Stress is part of parenting, we all know this. And for the ones who handle the majority of the unpaid labor or mental load, sometimes we just need a little moment of calm. Keep a pack of these mint-flavored CBD melts on hand. Place one melt to dissolve under your tongue for fast-acting calm. Use code THEEVERYMOM for 20% off your first order. Plus, receive a free S.O.S. On the Go Kit—including a mini summer sorbet daily drops, mini energizing roller, mini relief balm, and a reusable pouch—with any purchase over $70!
These super soft pajamas have a cute, comfy, and just the slightest bit sexy vibe. Available in 6 colors.
Etsy | Grace Personalized
These dainty stacking rings are perfect to stack together or with other rings. Personalize with your name, your kids' names, or any word that is important to you.
An editor fave, this facial steamer gives you an excuse to bask in warm steam for 10 minutes without distractions while it detoxifies your skin.
Drama, sex, romance, royalty—Bridgerton has it all. If you love the TV show, the you'll probably become obsessed with the book series, too.
Looking for the perfect serum to make your skin feel smooth and glowy? Look no further! MAELOVE's serum features Vitamin C, E, Ferulic Acid, and Hyaluronic Acid to make your skin feel amazing.
White Elephant Designs
If you're planning on traveling anytime soon, you'll most likely need a toiletry bag to hold all your essentials. These cute leather pouches come in different sizes to fit everything you need.
More colors available.
Etsy | Ink and Bobbin
Family photos are a standard, but what about treating yourself to a custom family illustration? These watercolor family portraits are handmade and would look adorable framed on any wall or shelf.
The summer months can cause your lips to dry out easily. Instead of constantly reapplying lip balm all the time, a lip mask can be worn while you sleep and will provide moisture and antioxidants to make your lips feel more hydrated.
Candles are a great way to make your home feel homey and fresh. Tokki candles come in a cute bag with a seasonal candle scent. Plus, if you're giving it as a gift, there is an option to upload a gift message or a photo or video to the tag.
For the mama who relishes a bath as a time to relax, read, listen to music or scroll on your phone, up the experience with Equilibria's Mindful Mineral bath soaks. Gardenia and Jasmine aromatic oil blends nourish your skin while Mediterranean Sea salt, Dead Sea salt, and CBD help purify and destress. You definitely deserve this one! Use code THEEVERYMOM for 20% off your first order. Plus, receive a free S.O.S. On the Go Kit—including a mini summer sorbet daily drops, mini energizing roller, mini relief balm, and a reusable pouch—with any purchase over $70!
The shoe of the summer, this pair of Birkenstocks is both an editor and reader favorite for its comfort, style, and versatility.
Etsy | Blushes And Gold
Personalize this dainty necklace with your kids' names, initials, coordinates, or another meaningful phrase. We also love that you can add additional bars for additional kids.
Available in rose gold, silver, or gold, and with chain lengths of 18" or 20".
Rey To Z
A cute summer staple, this "MAMA" hat comes in 10 colors. And, if you're feeling a mommy and me moment, you can get matching customized hats for your littles.
High-quality and timeless, this custom photo book features a classic, minimalist design. It's easy to customize, too, with your favorite photos to create a forever keepsake.
Splurge Treat Yourself Items Over $100
To quote one of our editors, "Now that I’ve felt the magic that is this dress, I cannot simply spend a spring and summer without it." It's an investment piece you can wear anywhere (including while taking a nap) this summer.
More colors and patterns available.
Mark & Graham
A monogrammed tote is perfect for beach days, pool days, or trips to the farmer's market. This tote comes in a ton of colors to personalize with your style (also, a great gift idea!).
Organize all your tech on your desk, dresser or nightstand with this chic charging station.
Available in 5 colors.
Pretty and delicate, this MAMA necklace is a perfect treat yourself accessory you'll wear all the time.
Available in yellow, rose, and white gold.
Smartwatches can have a slew of benefits; they remind you to move, help track your sleep, monitor your health data, and can actually help if you're trying to limit screen time—i.e., you won't get sucked into a smartphone scroll.
We love the Series 6 gold aluminum watch face with solo loop pictured here.
This post was in partnership with Equilibria but all of the opinions within are those of The Everymom editorial board. We only recommend products we genuinely love.